Wendy’s Laughter Journey

I created Laughter FIT, Montreal’s English-language laughter club, over six years ago. Over this time, I have witnessed laughter working its magic on countless Laughletes, and it is my greatest joy to lead circles of like-minded people into laughter.

I laughed hard and it felt great.

In 2010 I attended a party where Laughologist Albert Nerenberg was the guest presenter. I was recovering from a difficult case of pneumonia provoked by the immune-compromising medication that I’d been taking. I had been living with lupus, an auto-immune illness, for over 20 years.

I panicked when Albert drew me out to do a “back-to-back” interactive laughter exercise. I didn’t think I could laugh; I had no strength to push out air. I’d lost my laughter after years of battling a chronic illness.

But I surprised myself. I laughed hard and it felt great. I even met some people that night who remain good friends to this day. I laughed for days after at anything that was or wasn’t remotely funny. I attended all of Albert’s events and workshops. I was connecting with others, I had broken my isolation and saw a way of life other than illness.

I trained with Albert as a Laughercize Party and Workshop Leader, becoming one of a handful of Laughletes to acquire this expertise. Wanting to learn more, I later trained as a Laughter Yoga Leader with Master Laughter Yoga Trainer Liliana De Leo. These trainings complemented my Svaroopa Yoga Teacher Certification. I already had a deep understanding of the benefits of stopping to breathe and relax the body and mind.

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There was one thing missing to tie all of this together before I began leading laughter groups. I wanted to be able to think and feel in the moment, on my feet, to move with the energy of a group, so I completed two levels at The Montreal Improv.

It wasn’t until I did the 40-day laughter challenge – laughing for 15-20 minutes a day for 40 days – that I truly internalized the laughter. Prior to that, I mainly viewed it as sport, a social activity. I admit that I only did the challenge for 21 days. It is one of the few things that I have started and did not complete, but I really only needed to do it for that amount of time. At day 21 I felt different. I imagined my body as a gas tank that was running on emotional empty. The daily laughter had transformed me and infused me with joy. And guess what? That joy was here to stay.

I had searched for a way to cope with the stress of life and chronic illness for years. I felt, deep down, that if I could find a way to manage my stress, better health would follow. The profound healing benefits of laughter built up my emotional intelligence and cope better with the challenges that life brings. Laughter allowed me to find joy from inside rather than searching for happiness outside.

I created Laughter FIT, Montreal’s English-language laughter club, over six years ago. Over this time, I have witnessed laughter working its magic on countless Laughletes, and it is my greatest joy to lead circles of like-minded people into laughter.

I am eager to share the simple yet profound power of laughter with anyone who is willing to give it a try.

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